"Feelings" - a permanent or a temporary phenomena....???

Now apart from posts from social issues and awareness here I present you one post on non-social background. I will be focusing the term “FEELINGS”.  In simple terminology it’s just a 8 letter word.

But there is lot more or you can say many things hidden behind this word. Feelings you have for your mother and the feelings that each and every have for anyone in his/her life. During my childhood I was only taught that “Feelings” don’t have its types. As now I am 21, I can categorize the ”Feelings” into two parts , first one is “Hard Feelings” and second one is “Soft Feelings”. Nowadays apart from “soft feelings” many have “hard feelings”  for me too. Actually in this world of masked people Feelings  changes  according to the situations. Let me explain you by giving you following two case studies.

CASE STUDY 1:

                                Nowadays in this world of instant make-up and instant break-up between two lovers is one of the best examples which perfectly describes the volatility of Feelings. Lets say two of them are in love. For how long they will be in love?? Maybe for 1 year or 5 years maximum. As the time passes their feelings also changes.  And believe me or not it’s a universally accepted truth. In the beginning these couples will talk together about their future planning’s and all , and that feelings for each other is called “soft feelins”  but after 2-3 years when it comes to face the reality either boy moves a step backward or the girl moves back. And they start giving excuses to eachother to get separated. Now this feeling is called ”Hard Feelings”. I just want to say It takes only a small span of time in which your dear and near ones becomes your only well wishers. There is a quote “Time changes, and people too”  I want to add one thing at the end,  Feelngs too change. You can learn from this case study that the one who can plan his/her future with can leave you any point of time. And the feelings is just a useless factor. So grow up and beware…!!

CASE STUDY 2 :

                                                Now coming to your friends zone. Many of you have fought with each other and even with your best buddies. And many a times you stood still with him/her in her bad times. So here is a transform of feelings depending upon the situations.  So it takes only a few seconds to transform your feelings for one another. During our childhood times, we fought with our chaddhi buddies  and on next day we used to share ice cream with him/her.  At some point of time you might have thought of killing you friend with a gun after a huge fight or arguments. But the next day or after a month or a year when you meet them you just hug them with a smile. Time is the main switching element who drives your Feelings  of life.

                                                Till now the answer to my question is unknown, Do feelings really have types…?? , Is it necessary to change feelings with change in time….??? Are we afraid of anything …???  The answer  is still unknown and I am in search of this answer…. If you have any sensible answer please comment below….??