GIRL'S DRESSING SENSE - An issue for sick mentality people...!!

                      After some posts on Love and casteism, now it’s time to share with you some ideas about the dressing sense and poor mentality of people. You might be thinking of what this post is all about. Let me tell you, around 1 or 2 days back one my friend and her boyfriend were having a huge oral fight on social media. Then I messaged my friend “ What’s wrong and why are you having a such a huge argument with  your so called soul mate in short bf.. ?? “ . Then she took around 10-15 minutes. I waited till then and thought in my mind what would have been the reason behind their arguments.  Many reasons came in my mind, like the boy might be having some affair, or there will be some family issue, or girl might be cheating on him, and many more reasons knocked my mind.

AFTER 15 MINUTES……

A message flashed on my whatsapp screen, “He’s having problem with my way of clothing…”. This was the reason that I never thought of.  After thinking for some seconds, I replied “Don’t spoil your mind coz of some guy who can’t even honor or respect your dressing sense…” . Let me tell you, girl was my junior, so I just advised to just focus on her future. I know that seems to be like giving her the advice like a father.  Finally her reply was “What should I do, should I die..???” . It’s one of the common weapons used by the girls during a fight with their boyfriend.

                                Actually the my point of publishing this post is not on the arguments and oral fight of this couple but on the fact that still being in the 21^st century we try to blame girls for their dressing sense. The guy in the above story pointed out that he doesn’t like her girlfriend wearing shorts. Actually i was shocked ,that  her parents don’t have any problem in buying a short or any other type of cloth for her daughter, then who is he to like it or not.  Being in the developing nation, people don’t wanna leave their old rituals that their father and grandfather used to follow. When the girl texted that guy  “Why you have problem with my clothing…?? “, his reply was “ Other people on the road stares at you…” .  Basically nowadays in India, if a girls wears a short or a saree , people still gonna stare. These are the only guys who blame girls for the rape cases.  

                                I just wanna say you guys if wanna see our country growing up, then you too have to grow up. This is the only story that I came across but there are millions of other stories and cases going on, on girl’s dressing sense.